Choose
Yourself.

6-Month 1:1 Transformation Program

For women who are ready to become the woman
who attracts, not chases, love.

✦ Live Fully, Love Deeply Method ✦
Tell Me About Yourself → Book a Discovery Call
CA Licensed LMFT
Global Relationship Coach
15+ Years Experience
Psychology Today
@nicoyanikki

This isn't surface-level advice.
This is inner work, emotional work, and embodied change that actually shifts how you show up in your life and relationships.

You've been strong for everyone else for a long time.
It's time to choose you.

Nikki — Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist
Who Is Guiding You

Hi, I'm Nikki.
I know what it's like to be strong for everyone else.

As a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist with over 15 years of experience, I've worked with hundreds of women who were doing everything right — and still felt invisible, overlooked, and lost in their own lives.

You've been strong for everyone else for a long time. This work is about finally choosing you.

As a therapist, I hold space for deep healing. As a relationship coach, I walk alongside you as you build the life and love you deserve. In both — the work is the same: making the unconscious conscious, so you can change from the inside out.

✦ CA Licensed LMFT ✦ EMDR Certified ✦ Gottman Trained ✦ Psychology Today ✦ 15+ Years
This is for you if…

You recognize yourself
in any of these.

  • You feel like you lose yourself in relationships
  • You struggle with boundaries or saying no
  • You overthink, overgive, or over-function
  • You crave deep, healthy, emotionally available love
  • You keep repeating the same painful patterns
  • You're ready to stop the cycle — for real, this time
The Live Fully, Love Deeply Method

How the transformation
actually happens.

Three stages. Every layer of you. Nothing left untouched.

1
Stage One
Awareness

You can't change what you can't see. This stage gently brings into the light the patterns, wounds, and unconscious drivers quietly running your relationships and your life.

🪞 Seeing patterns clearly 🌑 Unconscious awareness 💡 Making the hidden visible
2
Stage Two
Acceptance

This stage meets you in every dimension — the stories you tell yourself, the emotions you carry, the patterns in your body, and the parts of you that have been running quietly in the background for years.

Every part of you is welcome here.

3
Stage Three
Aligned Action

From this grounded, self-led place — you move. Not from fear or old wounds, but from the woman you've become. This is where inner work becomes outer change.

🛡️ Real boundaries ✨ Embodied confidence 💗 Attracting alignment
Your 6-Month Journey

Falling Back in Love
with Yourself

Six months. Six chapters. One woman — fully reclaimed.

1
See Her
Month One · Awareness
Your patterns, finally visible. Many for the very first time.
By the end of this month, you'll know exactly what's been keeping you stuck.
2
Understand Her
Month Two · Understanding
Making sense of your behaviors and emotional responses — with compassion, not judgment.
By the end of this month, you'll stop blaming yourself and start understanding yourself.
3
Hold Her
Month Three · Regulation
Learning to regulate and stay — instead of reacting, shutting down, or running.
By the end of this month, you'll be able to feel your feelings without being swept away by them.
4
Find Her
Month Four · Meeting Yourself Again
Reconnecting with who you are — your voice, your needs, your identity.
By the end of this month, you'll know what you need — and feel safe asking for it.
5
Free Her
Month Five · Boundaries & Standards
Setting boundaries. Holding standards. Choosing differently — and following through.
By the end of this month, you'll hold a boundary and not feel guilty about it.
6
Become Her
Month Six · Embodiment & Attraction
Live it. Be it. Attract from it. This is who you become.
By the end of this month, you won't just feel different. You'll be different.
By the End of 6 Months

You will feel the difference
in your whole life.

  • ✦Trust yourself deeply — your gut, your decisions, your worth
  • ✦Feel emotionally grounded and secure, even when things are hard
  • ✦Stop abandoning your own needs to keep others comfortable
  • ✦Feel confident in your decisions and the boundaries you hold

…and most importantly, become the woman who chooses herself.

Start Here — It's Free

The Inner Mirror

Not ready yet? Start with The Inner Mirror — a free resource to help you begin seeing your patterns clearly and reconnecting with yourself.

Get The Inner Mirror →
Ready to begin?

The most important relationship
is the one with yourself.

Spots are limited — this is intimate, high-touch 1:1 work. If something in you is leaning in right now, that's not an accident. That's her, ready to choose herself.

Tell Me About Yourself → Book a Discovery Call

Limited spots available · 1:1 program · 6 months